Anant's Mundan

On 9th October we went to Jaipur for My baby's mundan. This ceremony was to be performed at the Amer fort in front of Amer's

Goddess. My father in law, mother-in law, brother in law, sister-in law there son, me, my husband and my nonu baby all went there. It was too hot, sun was shining very brightly and we have to walk 2-3 kms in such a hot weather. We reached temple and as it was 2nd navratra and huge lines were expected but that was not the case. Within 5-10 min. we have done darshan and performed all the rituals which need to be done.

After that we went to our old ancestral Haweli in Jaipur. My husband's taooji and chacha ji stays with there families there. Taooji asked one barber to come at home and clean shave Anant's head. Ashish Bhaiya grabbed A and barber stared cutting his hairs with his tools. Anant was crying very badly and all other children were surrounding him as if he is a toy.

After getting clear head he was given bath and after that he was playing with other children. We stayed there at night and next day on 10th we got ready for going back to Alwar. Around 8 we started from Jaipur towards Alwar and at 10 we reached there.

My baby is looking so sweet without hairs. The bad thing is that he will stay with his grandparents at Alwar and me an my husband will come back to Gurgaon as we have to go to office on Monday and both of us have morning shift.

I will miss my baby a lot and will meet him after one week on sawamani function and his birthday celebrations on 16th October 2010. I don't know how i am going to cope up with this situation . No body is thinking about a mother everybody has there own reasons. Right now i am following a policy of wait and watch and one day will come when .....

So waited one whole week to meet my baby and went to Alwar on Friday. I was with my baby for three days but guests and other tasks were to be performed so given less time to my baby. Now again i will have to leave my baby there in Alwar till Diwali. Let's watch what will happen after Diwali whether he will come with us here in Gurgaon or his grandparents will still stay there.

Don't know what life wants from us and where everything is going on.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANANT

Yesterday was my baby's First Birthday but we can not celebrate it as i have thought. But we will be celebrating it next month on 15th October as he was born in Navratras and that too on 8th one. We are planning to celebrate it on that day only as now a days Pitr paks(Shraadh) are going on.

No worries we will celebrate it. Nonu's Nani Mosi and nanu mosa came with gift and loved him a lot.In the evening we went to temple with sweets and than distributed to poor people outside the temple.

BELATED HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DEAR ANANT BABY.

My Baby Started Walking without support

Yesterday ie. 9th September my baby walked leaving my hand. He took few steps but it was really a great moment for me. Now i practice him walking without support.

He walks very cousiously, like he is walking on a rope. I liked the way he started walking by balancing his body and than putting steps forward.

Really a great moment for me. I am so happy i have prepared his video will post as soon as i get time.

Bye for now...

My baby, my angel not well

From last few days my baby is having loose motion and he has lost weight also. He has beconme so thin that when i pick him up in my lap i felt that i have nothing in my hands.

Oh God why he suffers from all those illnesses. Please keep him well and give his all pains and problems to me. I can not see his situation.

He has stopped eating all solid stuff he used to eat before. He is taking powered milk now. I don't when he will be fine and healthy again.

The Good thing is his upper jaw teethes are coming so in few days he will start biting all of us and specially to his cousin brother Akshat who envies him a lot.

Anant waits for his Mama

Now my baby has started missing me as whole day i am away from him. from few days when i go back to home ,i found him waiting just for me. As soon as i enter my room he started expressing happiness in his own voice. aaaa..dddaaa..paaaa..kaahaii like this. He start waving his both the hands in the manner of calling me near to him. As soon as i pick him up from the bed he stick to my shoulder for few minutes and see my face, smile and than start playing with me.

Now it has become my routine to play with him in the night for 1/2 hr and than we both of sleep quietly. No disturbance nothing. While in office i really miss him a lot. Sometimes i thought that i should quit my job and stay with my sweet sweet baby.

Planning few more things if they went fine i will be with my cutest baby in the world.

Anant got injected for Measeles

My nonu and sweet baby was given measles injection today. We went to doctor for the injection which was due in 9th month but due to circumstances it was given today.

I got to know from my husband that it is paining a lot and he is crying. It has been whole day that by sweety is suffering from fever and pain.

God please keep him well and give his all pains to me. God make him fit and fine.

Love you my baby.

Yesterday was the worst day of the month. To begin with Early in the morning i forget Sabodana on Gas and it was all burnt. Next thing which went wrong was while ironing my clothes some part of my dupatta got destroyed.

Electricity went at 10:30 in the morning and by the time i left for the office (12:30), No sign of it. Got to know that whole day there was no electricity and inverter also got discharged.

In the office lots of work to do and sent wrong report to my senior. I was on call since 8 pm and call got over at 10:15. I had not taken dinner and at home i prepared maggie and that too in the light of mobile as there was no electricty whole day.

No problem. Things went wrong one day but other day it might not be the same. Think Positive and you will get positive vibes from the god.

My sweetie was not well from last week. He suffered from cough and cold , we gave him medicines and it was corrected. On Friday eve my husband gave him bath and from that time he suffered from severe cold and cough.

I reached home from office at 10:30, he was sleeping alone and making loud noises. After observing I found he was breathing from his mouth and as I could search any medicine for him, he wake up. From 11 in the night he was relaxing in my lap. If I lay him down on the bed he started crying. His heart beat was very fast, I was very afraid what to do and what not. At 4 in the morning I felt him little feverish so gave him his syrup for fever. After taking it he slept for 1 hour so I did. At 6 my husband came from office and after checking him said his condition is not good called few relatives and told about the condition. He also called one of his doctor friend and he prescribed few medicines and he brought them. We gave medicine to him but no relief. We called Anant’s doctor who is a child specialist. She gave us appointment of 9:30 in the morning.

We reached clinic before time. Doctor came around 9:45 and diagnosed Anant and prescribed medicines. She told to us that Anant’s condition is really very critical if he does not show any improvement till evening we will have to hospitalize him. Anant was suffering from “Pneumonia” My little angle suffering and having so much pain in his chest. Oh my God. I prayed to god please make him fit.

Doctor Nebulized him three times within 45 minutes. She has taken 5 min. brake before starting with other process.

By God’s grace my baby is now fine, but still running nose. It will get
My nonu baby I really love you and miss you while in office. No other option, just to remember you baby.

Crawling Phase Started

My baby started crawling and now follows me wherever I go. He started crawling last month but in the back gear… heheeh. It was really amazing that Anant started crawling in backward direction. I have never seen any baby doing like this.

But from last few days he has started crawling in front direction. Now he is following us wherever we go. He is becoming naughty day by day. Now he does not like to sit. He wants to stand and walk.
When I put him in walker he thinks that he has started walking and run like a cat. Now we cannot keep things lower as he throws all of them.

Will be putting photos soon. Lots of photos and videos to upload here.

Anant trying to become a Singer as well as Dancer

By the time my soni moni baby reached 8^th month he started saying few words. The first word he said was Aba , than baba and Papa. After listening him saying “papa” my hubby was very happy and feeling good.

My Anant is planning to become a dancer I guess…he he he… My husband downloaded few songs and played them and to my astonishment, my nonu baby was sitting on the bed and singing song in his on code word language and at the same time moving his hands, legs and body. Will upload the video as soon as I have time.

Sometimes 24 hrs in a day fall short when it comes to spend time with my nonu baby Anant. I am not a housewife so I get less time to spend with him. My mother-in-law takes care of him. I have heard people saying that a bay recognizes his mother and is more attached to her but in my case my baby is not very much attached to me and I guess does not recognize me as his mother. I really feel very bad that being a mother my son is not attached to me. My office timings are really very odd (2pm-11 pm) In the morning I have to finish all household work and prepare lunch for in-laws. At 1 pm cab reaches and i have to leave my baby. At night I reaches home by 11:50 and at that time he is sleeping. No time to play with him.

Now it’s time to prepare something for my little angel, will keep you updated about his activities.

Anant's Anprashan

On 23rd March my sweetoo had his food for the first time.Till now we have only given milk to him nothing else. In our family it is a ritual that when a baby gets 6 months old we had a ceremony known as "Anprashan" which means now a baby can eat grain food. We gave him sweet sweet Kheer to eat. But he does not eat it as he was not taking it earlier. We introduced him with kheer and puri the very day.

Lets come on the ceremony of "anprashan", his grandparents bought him a pair of new dress and he looked so good in that i can't tell. Will put his picture here as soon as i get it. He was wearing white Kurta, orange Dhoti, orange cap with some work and orange jacket with beads work.

He started sitting with support in the month of March and by 20th March he started sitting by his own. That was another milestone acheived by my sweetu baby.

We had havan at our home and few relatives were also present at that time. Everybody blessed my baby and presented gifts. The whole day was really busy and we have to do preparations to come back to Gurgaon from Alwar.

At the end of the day we took him to the doctor for regular check up. Usually he sleeps by 11 but that day don't know why sleep was miles away from his eyes. He was playing with me and his father was feeling sleepy because whole day was tiresome and in the morning he has to drive car.

At last by 12:30 By little angel Anant went to sleep. My sleeping beauty.

Cutie Pie, My Angel- Anant Born

So the time arrived when i was to be operated. I was put on the stretcher where operation was to be done. Doctor asked me few question and another doctor gave me anesthesia at the end of the spinal cord. I was in consciousness, was able to hear everything what doctors were talking about. I also felt when stitches were put on lower abdominal.In between i felt as i will vomit but on my face mask was present neither i can move my legs nor i can move my hands as they were tied. I tried to move my head but don't know whether i did or not but nurse removed my mask and put bowl in front of me. Till the time my baby was out i was in conscious later on when they put me on other stretcher to transfer in ICU room i was in unconscious state. For 6 hrs i was not able to see or talk to anybody.

The day, God showed his kindness and all of his love towards me and blessed me and hubby with most lovable, cute and precious baby named Anant on 26 September 09 at 6:20 am. Anant: My cutie pie, My Life.

Everybody outside operation theater was nervous, were in what to do condition, worried, were waiting outside for something everybody has dreamt of, and its very hard to explain, what was there condition at that time. Time seems to be running very slow, I was in operation theater, but at 6:25, Everybody outside operation theater were informed that “You have been blessed by a Baby boy”.. then……………………………………………….

My husband, mother-in-law and father-in-law all felt happy and tears of happiness flooded there eyes. Then all of a sudden the door of lab opens and nurse came along with a small little angle, wrapped in pink cloth, everyone's eyes got stuck on him….He was looking so cute, so sweet, a baby folding his both hands, eyes closed, small hairs, small nose, pink lips, like a sweet little sleeping beauty.My mother-in-law took the baby and after they brought it to the room.

Cutie Pie Still Not Born

It was my last month and waiting for my dream baby to come in front of all of us.As people ask what do you want a boy or a girl, my answer was always its a god's gift and whatever it might be it will be good.

I was suppose to go to office till 1st September, than take a break for 3 months but on 31st August i felt little pain and was not able to go to office. Nobody was there at home and i was feeling very lonely and depressed. I called my hubby and told about the pain he advised me not to move much and take rest and he will reach withing 1/2 hr.

That same day we went to Alwar my in-laws place. I was doing evening walks daily and other things suggested by my mother-in-law. Being a professional, sitting at home was really making me feel helpless. No interaction with my online friends or relatives. Nor i was able to check my emails.

Days were passing in a hope to get a sweet sweet baby. The big day came and i was not having any pain or any other kind of stuff,than we went to doctor for check up it was the date given by the doctor. After check up doctor advised us to get me admitted in the hospital. On 25th September at 10 Pm i was admitted into the "Navjeena Hospital" in Alwar itself. Whole night Passed but no signs of labor pain. Early in the morning doctor Nandini came for Operating other lady as her condition deteriorated. After that she came to me and checked my condition. After check up she asked my mother-in-law that it need to be operated as condition of baby is not good and getting delayed will harm both of us(myself and my baby)

Father-in-law and my husband reached hospital after hearing the news of operation. All formalities were fulfilled and i was taken into the operation theater at around 6:10.

And you know what happened next...How i felt after viewing machines and so many doctors in the operation theater. Will tell you in my next post.