On 9th October we went to Jaipur for My baby's mundan. This ceremony was to be performed at the Amer fort in front of Amer's
Goddess. My father in law, mother-in law, brother in law, sister-in law there son, me, my husband and my nonu baby all went there. It was too hot, sun was shining very brightly and we have to walk 2-3 kms in such a hot weather. We reached temple and as it was 2nd navratra and huge lines were expected but that was not the case. Within 5-10 min. we have done darshan and performed all the rituals which need to be done.
After that we went to our old ancestral Haweli in Jaipur. My husband's taooji and chacha ji stays with there families there. Taooji asked one barber to come at home and clean shave Anant's head. Ashish Bhaiya grabbed A and barber stared cutting his hairs with his tools. Anant was crying very badly and all other children were surrounding him as if he is a toy.
After getting clear head he was given bath and after that he was playing with other children. We stayed there at night and next day on 10th we got ready for going back to Alwar. Around 8 we started from Jaipur towards Alwar and at 10 we reached there.
My baby is looking so sweet without hairs. The bad thing is that he will stay with his grandparents at Alwar and me an my husband will come back to Gurgaon as we have to go to office on Monday and both of us have morning shift.
I will miss my baby a lot and will meet him after one week on sawamani function and his birthday celebrations on 16th October 2010. I don't know how i am going to cope up with this situation . No body is thinking about a mother everybody has there own reasons. Right now i am following a policy of wait and watch and one day will come when .....
So waited one whole week to meet my baby and went to Alwar on Friday. I was with my baby for three days but guests and other tasks were to be performed so given less time to my baby. Now again i will have to leave my baby there in Alwar till Diwali. Let's watch what will happen after Diwali whether he will come with us here in Gurgaon or his grandparents will still stay there.
Don't know what life wants from us and where everything is going on.
